" EVERY DAY IS A SATURDAY" !!!

Yes, it is true-you can have seven days of Saturdays.  Yes, it is true you can fill an entire day with fun.  Yes it is true that after almost 40 years of marriage, Duncan and I can survive a 24/7 lifestyle.  Hard to believe but when first married we spent very little of our time together due to work, travel, etc. which continued throughout most of the forty years.  Now "we have time" is literally true and yes we can survive that much time together.  Duncan has a day devoted mostly to some golf activity and I have my usual household routine plus golf and then there is the social life that free time affords.  It is hard to believe that one can host or be hosted every night of the week-this mountain is very social.  I am loving it! 
 
 
*Finished renovations on the mountain home...
*Duncan and I competed in "The Quatro Cup" hosted by Audi in Pinehurst, NC
*The ladies from Winston came for a Member Guest tournament...
*Duncan won the first annual "Watermelon Seed Spittin'" contest hosted by Pat and Dave Green...
*Celebrating July 4th on the mountain...
*I spent time with the ladies hosted by Nan in Elk River...
*We hosted the Feltens for a couples event that was so much fun-the theme of "Golfing with the Stars" gave us the opportunity to indulge in "dress up" as The Flintstones... 
*Celebrating with June Widdoes  on her 80th birthday-dancing the night away...
 
Check out the events in a photo gallery with this link:
 
Looking ahead there is a wedding in the spring-Leslie and Bill will be married May 17, 2014 in Asheville, NC.  We plan to spend a bit of time in Florida in February to include a trip to Panama with the Widdoes and friends and before we can turn around the 2013 holidays will be here! 
 
The blog has taken a back seat in my daily activities.  I am considering joining the ranks of FACEBOOK as a way to continue my blog.  I am hesitant-do I really want to maintain another social media site?  Every friend request causes angst that you might think I am refusing to "like you" when truthfully I do not participate.  I am concerned that I might be "left behind" in the technology trends so am still considering.....Would enjoy feedback with your thoughts?  I know many of you are quite the FACEBOOK fans-let me know what you think. 
 
Until then I remain a Blogger...enjoy the rest of your summer.  I plan to make today "another Saturday on the mountain" !


IT'S A NEW DAY !!!

It is official!  Duncan has retired-and they said it would never happen...well "they" were wrong.  We stopped and said-why not?  So now each day is literally a blank page waiting to be filled.



We begin by reevaluating residences;  keep the downtown condo but expand storage in the mountains to accommodate more "stuff" has been a priority.  There were retirement parties and celebrations along with the frenzy of reorganization, adapting to 24/7 with each other (so far so good) and a new life regime that includes exercising and walking (new to one of us) . 

Included in the last month of activities we celebrated with Elton John and attended  the River Run Film Festival (attending morning-afternoon-night) yes "we have time"- Duncan's new favorite saying!   For all "The Voice" fans, we saw a great documentary "Twenty Feet From Stardom" which featured Judith Hill-she was grand !  It was a great story about backup singers and strangely included Tata Vega which we also saw at the Elton concert-one of his back up singers.  Stream it or rent it - great story !



With new beginnings are also endings......we "closed up" at the beach condo.  What a great ride!  A favorite memory?  Watching the Oscars with Bonnie, Lynne and Donna at a pajama party no less and a special event with Bonnie - crowns, sparkly earrings and mimosas for the  wedding of Katherine and William - just a royal good time !  We packed up the flamingo memorabilia (Betty and I will continue the MAC-MAR Invitational tradition at newer venues), beach worthy glassware that recalled a great "beach party" (boccie ball anyone?) with Gail and Jim Bland and the Yates - speaking of which we carried with us the magnetic bridge game which Prudy and Tom  Yates found (who knows how?) and we so enjoyed with them and Linda and  Travis Jackson-what great times !  It was a great last week at the beach.  Our friends, Amy & Vince Marconi from Rye, New York joined us for two great "last rounds of golf"  at The Surf as members.  We will return with the "Witches and Warlocks" contingent in the fall and look forward to more good times...but now we are the guests !  George-do you still treasure your "Blackjack" trophy ? 


Friends and family,  we are beginning again...almost forty years together and this is the first time we have had so much time - what a treasure to have this opportunity while we are still able to enjoy it!  Life is unpredictable - enjoy it NOW !!! 

Come see us...." We have time ! " 

Follow the above adventures by photo-check out the Smug Mug account 
http://gsmackeen.smugmug.com/ and select
Family 2013-Retirement
Events 2013-Elton John
Friends 2013-MAC-MAR Invitational








OFF TO PANAMA !!!


We avoided the winter blahs by escaping to Panama in late February.  A brief aside, in the few days before we left..... Leslie and her fiance, Bill, (newly engaged) and Blake and his girlfriend, Kim,  joined us in the mountains for a few days - it was a great start to our vacation.  Getting together is always a challenge with Leslie abroad until October of this year so this was truly a celebration! 
 
We arrived in Orlando and joined the group of 36 headed to Hotel Coronado in Panama.  The resort is located approximately 1 1/2 hours outside of the city.  June and Bud Widdoes were our hosts along with their friends Ann and George Downing whose cousin Bobby owned the resort.  What a treat to be included with the Widdoes and another ten of us from the High Meadows community;  we enjoyed the expanded group that included Widdoes family and friends from the Florida area as well as the Michigan area.  Needless to say we were treated like royalty-we became part of the family and staff became our friends as well.  Language with the staff was often an issue but pointing and pantomime were a huge help. 
 
The week was filled with lots of golf and morning-noon-and night meals that were delicious.  There were pool parties, parties in the halls outside our suites, parties on the bus rides to the various activities-it was a fun group.  Each evening we were entertained with music, dancing, karaoke, etc.  We fell right into Panama time - "no hurries-no worries"....I loved it all ! 
 
A few highlights:  Many members of the Downing family grew up in the zone and are now living in the Florida area. They shared great stories of life in Panama.  We went to the Canal zone which consists of several lock systems.  Panama is currently building another set of locks to be complete in 2014 that will accommodate the larger vessels.  We were viewing the locks which access from the Pacific Ocean into the Atlantic for the cargo ships.  Another day we drove into the Chargres National Forest to visit the Embera Indians, one of a group of six tribes that live in the island area.  The tribes total 800 peoples and basically subsist as much as possible on the land and waters around their village areas.  More recently some of the younger tribe members attend schools in the city but often return to the tribe to live and raise their families.  Another day we drove into the mountain range to El Valle-beautiful scenery-into a town with a craft and farmer's market.  Otherwise there was as much golf as you wanted to play. (Duncan never lacked for playing partners-my knee replacement kept me off the course except for chipping and putting).  The resort had a gym as well as spa facilities which I enjoyed.  Bright sunshine with breezes kept the daytime temperatures of 95 bearable.  Evenings were pleasant in the 70's - because we were visiting during he dry season, many areas were not in full green and bloom but lovely none the less. 
 
Panama is a beautiful country with very inviting peoples-but be prepared-with just a bit of Spanish you can make the trip an easier go.   Our many thanks to the Widdoes and the Downings for a wonderful week-this photo link gives you a great  overview....ALMOST like being there !!! Enjoy...

HAPPY NEW YEAR !!!

 
Could it be that we are already almost a month into 2013?  Time continues to zip by-each year disappearing quicker than the last.  I hope this finds each of you and your families doing well. 
Duncan and I settled into city and mountain life without missing a beat.  The one hour drive to the mountain home is heaven-we are really enjoying the best of both worlds.  Yes, we finally sold the Coventry home in August so for many who need to update our address file?
1 Park Vista Lane, Ste 440
Winston-Salem, North Carolina 27101
 
Due to unexpected medical issues with a knee replacement over the holidays, there are no holiday festivities or photos to post-on the mend (literally) and hoping to be back to a normal schedule come spring....but in  the meantime....
The rest of the family is also on the move.  Blake decided to move from uptown Charlotte to a home in Charlotte and had great success quickly selling his condo and finding a new home in the Plaza Midwood area of Charlotte.  Two months selling, buying, packing and moving-all completed over the holidays…Not enough change?  Blake began a new job in early January as a Corporate Accounting Manager with Campus Crest Communities, Inc.;  he is responsible for closing and reporting the consolidated financial results of Campus Crest  and its operating subsidiaries to both the SEC and management.  He will also oversee the day to day corporate accounting activities and assist in special projects or transactions as they arise.  It is a new year and a new beginning!  
  Blake ran the Thunder Road Marathon (his first) in November and under 4 hours-CONGRATULATIONS!
In July 2012, Leslie completed her 2.5 year tour as a Health Officer at the United State Agency for International Development (USAID) Mission in Jordan. After a nice break home with her family and friends she moved on to her second USAID tour as the Deputy Health Office Director at the USAID Mission in South Sudan; she is based at the US Embassy in Juba, South Sudan. Her duties including managing the water, sanitation and hygiene portfolio; managing a service delivery project which supports the provision of primary health care services in the two most populous states in South Sudan; as well as managing a health systems strengthening project that partners with the Government of South Sudan Ministry of Health to develop their human resource and financial management systems. She resides on the US Embassy Compound a short walk from the US Embassy and tries to get out into the field to visit projects as often as possible, you can view her photos here: http://leslieann.smugmug.com/SouthSudan-3.
Leslie and Blake as well as Leslie and Grandmama at Shelton Vineyards late summer.
                                                
 
Thank you for staying in touch via my limited social media.   (FYI: I do not Facebook so am not ignoring your Friend request-nothing personal-just not interested at this time.)   Take care and have a prosperous and happy 2013 !!!

SEASONS CHANGE..AND SO DO WE !
 
Can it be ?  The summer is gone, fall is here and
I have been absorbed in family, home and  hearth-so to speak ! 
 
All good but time has flown during these last few months.  Leslie arrived home from Amman, Jordan-leaving her USAID post after 2 1/2 years there.  Two months of  "R and R"  went too quickly and now she is settling into her new post in Juba, South Sudan.  As a critical post, she will be away for one year-but one year is still a long time !!  While home it was great to spend time with family and friends....Winston-Salem, NC beach, NC mountains and then a special time on the west coast with Hopkins' friends in Napa Valley. 
 
Duncan and I had lots of other summer events-mostly golf related-but still fun. The photo gallery walks you through our summer (mostly in the mountains) with guests, events and more guests.  We have arrived to fall and  the holidays-all too quickly!  Most of the leaves have fallen and the High Meadows mountain takes on a whole new personality.  Since this is our first winter with a mountain get away I am sure we will continue to commute to the mountains as the weather permits.


No excuses but many of you have sent wonderful updates that I have enjoyed.  So sorry for not responding but once again I seem to have taken on too many projects-I made it through another Rally event (this a combo for the Rally and Arnie's Army)...."Rumble on the Mountain"  and it was a huge success; I did enjoy working  on the Silent Auction for this event.  The Pinnacle partners met at the High Meadows home for a great retreat (although weather was terrible!!).  Another  "Witches & Warlocks" at the beach  and in the mix several weeks of landscaping and also several months of an addition in the mountains.  Next spring we will surely be settled !!!

Is one ever settled?  Life is what keeps us busy and  going-that I love.  Hope you are enjoying 2012 as we head into the holiday season.  My best to you and yours......

(Check out 2012 Galleries- FAMILY, EVENTS, FRIENDS for the latest photo uploads)

 
 
 

SHARING OUR NEW HOME AT HIGH MEADOWS

Short and sweet-a much too busy spring and summer.  We are in the mountains for much of our week then in Winston as well.  Could not wait to share the mountain photos as soon as we did have our sofa-arrived on a very slow boat from wherever-but was worth the wait!  Will catch up soon with more specific events but enjoy this "street scene" at High Meadows.  Happy summer !!!
Click http://gsmackeen.smugmug.com/Street-Scenes/320-MEADOWVIEW

WELCOME TO OZ....DOWN UNDER !!!

Australia is actually known as OZ - an apt name for a "magical" place.  Arriving May 4 after a 36 hour trip - yes, that is 36 hours - we were thrilled to be in a country where you share a common language.  Mutual of Omaha once again hosted a grand time for all.  We were wined and dined in Sydney, Australia and beyond.  The photo gallery is amazing and will whet your appetite to make the trek to this beautiful country.  Highlights included a wonderful stay at the Four Seasons overlooking the Sydney Opera House, a tour of the Opera House, Botanical Gardens, Maritime Museum, The Rocks, The Museum of Contemporary Art and the list goes on. 

We sailed on the Harbor, walked on Bondi Beach (home of the SPEEDO), toured outside the city to the Blue Mountains to include a koala and kangaroo habitat and generally enjoyed the splendor of Sydney and the countryside. 

Link to www.sydney.com , www.sydneyoperahouse.com , www.bondivillage.com , www.bluemts.com.au , and then check out YOU TUBE to enjoy the "String Divas".  

The final pictures in the gallery (yes there are 164) include the Mutual farewell dinner overlooking the Opera House with a grand fireworks send off-these particular pictures do not do justice to the display but believe me-it was wonderful !  I hope you enjoy.....

http://gsmackeen.smugmug.com/Travel/2012 click on Sydney, Australia

SPRING HAS SPRUNG !!!

Now it is late April and although we have moved into the mountain cottage (have renamed since is a small weekend getaway) it is still in the remodel phase.  Work is being done on mountain time-a bit slow for me-but we are assured that all will be complete by the time we are back up at High Meadows in mid May...we will see....
As it has turned out the timing has been great.  Spent two weeks of March and early April at the beach-the first with Mom, Aunt Mark and Genia-great visit with a highlight visit to Brookgreen Gardens; the next week was the tenth annual MAC-MAR Invitational with girlfriends and then an Easter weekend before heading home to pack up for mountain move. 
Successful move even though was on Friday the 13th ! We unpacked a box, spent time playing golf, unpacked a box, dinner at Club, unpacked a box, golf and so on and so forth.  Already love it even if we still do not have a complete kitchen and could not find a the shower curtain so had to take baths-a throw back to childhood. 
We deserved our great New York weekend with Jim and Gail Bland and then off to the beach for almost another week-Member Guest with Pinnacle partners....with all of the travel the condo has become just an overnight stop on our way to fun places. 
How fortunate Duncan and I are  to enjoy these great times together.  No profound thoughts for this blog just an appreciation for all that I have.  I welcome SPRING with a big smile and my suitcase packed !!!
Check out the complete photo links:  http://gsmackeen.smugmug.com/
2012 Travel....Brookgreen Gardens and April in New York
2012 Friends....MAC-MAR Invitational
2012 Street Scenes.....High Meadows (weekly progress)  to be updated in late May COMPLETED !

STARRY, STARRY NIGHTS !!!

It's March-where did the time go?  Last checked in right after the new year began and the rest is a blur.  Duncan and I spent time in January looking at properties in High Meadows Country Club at Roaring Gap, NC.  It is a one hour drive from Winston, the homes have golf course or mountain views and we fell in love with the idea....so we are now proud owners of a mountain cottage that overlooks the #17 par 3 at High Meadows-we can see tee to green, the #18 fairway, the clubhouse in the distance and a bit of a mountain as well.  It is a true golf community with lots of golfing activities for both of us.  We are really looking forward to our weekend retreat.  After purchasing the home that we could "just move into" - did we really believe that? - we are in the remodeling process and hope to be completed by mid April.  The view..... more photos next blog.
With our extra winter time we had fun with friends: a weekend visit with Genia (Tyson family from SC) that included the W-S Symphony-such great girlfriend time-an Asheville weekend with Linda and Travis Jackson and friends to include a Big Band night at the Grove Park Inn....

a bullfighting rodeo with Jane & Paul Hendricks, dinner and bridge with Prudy and Tom Yates, a Super Bowl Sunday that included every hour of coverage, a wonderful trip to visit Nan, Tess, Jack and Pat Currie in sunny Florida,  a week with my Mom to be sure her new pacemaker is working OK, a week at the beach to resupply for the season that included two  of the coldest rounds of golf on record, dancing, dining and a spectacular evening hosted by David and Travis from River Birch Lodge-a four course wine tasting dinner with "dancing" friends that was incredible.  (Same friends-different theme!)

Tomorrow we lose an hour that I desperately need!  The time change mentally screws up my agenda but by the fall I will have forgotten all about it!  Although I do love a project I actually may have taken on a bit more than I bargained for in the mountains-we are on a timeline to be completed by mid April so we are pushing each day to stay on schedule.  When we are sitting on our deck in the late afternoon watching the last foursome of the day head to the clubhouse, it will be worth it! 

Speaking of those starry nights, having grown up in the country I look forward to a night sky with  the stars as the only light.  Heaven!  

.....HOW TIME FLIES !

HAPPY NEW YEAR !!!
Can it be that I have actually been "offline" for two months?  Of course not (anyone who knows me is certain I must live attached to my email)  but blame the blog lapse on a very busy holiday that began in early November and has continued on into the new year.  Duncan and I have had wonderful events to celebrate the holidays with family and friends.  We started off with a flash of light and sound enjoying the Transiberian Orchestra with Prudy & Tom Yates, November & December beach time, downtown lights and sounds, Duncan's first time at "The Nutcracker",  a celebration with Pinnacle partners, friends and Secret Santa,  then Leslie arrived (from Jordan) to surprise my Mom for the holidays which we spent with family in Kenly.

Happily reporting all of the family is well.  Updates:  Leslie will be in Amman, Jordan until mid 2012.  Her next USAID post will be in Juba, South Sudan for one year as the  deputy director for the public health office;  the exact timing is still to be determined.  Blake continues to excel at Grant Thornton in Charlotte.  Thankfully his travels are in the Charlotte area-no more stranded Fridays in airports. Duncan continues to work but with lots of time for golf and dancing.  Downtown living has been more than we could have hoped for-we just love it! 
 
As 2012 picks up speed-time is going too quickly-I am getting my life "wired"....there is the car with Blutooth and a navigation system, the IPad2, IPod and a new IPhone that is taking on a life of its own.  Imagine at one time (not that many years ago) I rejected needing an answering machine on my home phone.  Now there is no home phone and I am connected at every twist and turn.  It is taking some getting used to but am getting closer to an actual understanding of how to use all of the systems-I don't understand how any of it works I just am learning to use.  Since I am technically challenged this in no small fete!  "Wired" may not be all good-is there any peace & quiet anymore?  Sure there is-you just have to unplug.   Plug into these photo links to enjoy our holiday celebrations..... 
May your new year be off to a grand start-keep in touch-my IPhone is on!

OCTOBER - HALLOWEEN TIME IS HERE !

One is never too old to celebrate Halloween !  Our friends,  Betty & Leonard, had a great party and yes, there was dress up !  Betty has a wonderful holiday spirit with decor to literally die for - witches are her favorite ! 
Speaking of witches, we had an entire weekend to celebrate "Witches & Warlocks" - our annual couples golf trip to the beach.  This was especially fun with lots of laughs and great fellowship.  Think back to the '60's and '70's and those fabulous college days when you loved just being with your friends?  Lots of laughs, games and a bit of alcohol but with early bedtimes and no hangovers-well that is our life as 60 year olds-plus or minus!!  So much fun....Thirty degree morning temperatures with slight drizzle and wind gusts did not dampen our spirit.  Friends can brighten the most dreary of days....and we did have dreary !!  See for yourself....

" THE BIG APPLE "

" Start spreading the news
I am leaving today
I want to be part of it
New York, New York..."
Four days of fun with girlfriends Betty, Darlene and Nan...a whirlwind of shopping, dining and the theater  - "The Book of Mormon" .....a reminder of how important friendship is.  Take time today to call a friend and just talk....email is not the same as a real conversation with friends.  I often forget this myself but I do enjoy the "girl talk" - hours on end of somethings and nothings.  Try it, you'll like it !
 
 PHOTOS TO ENJOY.......

AUTUMN SURPRISES !!

A before and after ( ABBA, that is)......Autumn always reminds me of the first day of school.  From first grade even into high school  much of my time in early autumn was spent selecting just the right ensemble, buying  papers and pens, selecting just the right backpack and/or school bag, covering my new books with decorative papers and on and on.  Oh, the good old days....when the most exciting autumn event was the day the new cars arrived in town at the Ford and Chevrolet dealerships.  The entire town arrived for the unveiling-literally-when cars actually took on a brand new shape each year !  And now...we recently spent a great deal of time and research deciding on a new car-SURPRISE- the 2012 models arrived without any fanfare and in many cases the dealerships are still waiting on the Japanese products that are stalled overseas indefinitely.  The same-but different-what still remained was the "new car smell" and the exhiliration of a "new ride".  AUTUMN HAS ARRIVED !!
Autumn brought a new energy to downtown-we have enjoyed "Rock The Block"- a two day celebration with music (jazz, country, beach, bluegrass, rock, etc.), food, vendors, etc. extolling the virtues of downtown...the Hispanic League's Fiesta 2012.....Winston Salem State University's homecoming parade (especially entertaining)...ArtsPalooza on Trade..."Havana Delirium" at the Stevens Center (although who knew the entire performance was in Spanish? - you were good sports, Leslie & David)..."The MadHatter's Ball" for the Adam Foundation (what a night !)...lunch and dinners out with friends....we love it all!  Included with all of the downtown activity were trips for mountain golf (one with girlfriends & one with the Pinnacle partners). 

" ABBA , the Concert "

"..... you can dance, you can jive, having the time of your life...."
Duncan and I were fortunate to experience  " ABBA, the Concert "  with friends Jane and Paul Hendrick on September 24 (I note the date because I am inserting this entry before other August events)...anyway what made it so special was that we met a member of the troop before the concert for dinner.  Conrad, brother of Caroline-the Hendricks exchange student in the mid-90's- is a professional guitarist from Sweden and is a part of the tribute band that was finishing it's USA tour with a stop in Greensboro.  Please note that two of the original ABBA band members were part of the tour:  Mike Watson (bass guitar) and Janne Kling (saxophone and flute).   JUST FABULOUS !  " Name of the Game " is FUN !!!
"Gimme, Gimme, Gimme" a chance to chaffeur everyone in our new Hyundai Sante Fe....once we figured out the navigation system.  Arriving at the venue, there was some mixup with "will call" tickets (compliments of the band)-more on that later-but we did meet Conrad after his sound check-and had a lovely dinner at a local restaurant " 1618 West Seafood Grill " (we recommend)..."Money, Money, Money" but what else do you expect for atmosphere and great food?...worth every penny !    An "S.O.S" from the band-the opening time was moved up 30 minutes due to impending weather-so the key lime everyone had their heart set on had to wait !  "Take a Chance On Me " to get you there, Conrad !!
"Mamma Mia"  !!!!!     Thirty minutes to showtime-thank heavens for the navigation!  Conrad jumped out of the car but we still had not picked up the tickets.  "Super Trouper" Paul sprinted across the concourse to "will call" and yes, the tickets were there-we were front and center!  Jane and I are "Dancing Queen"s- up and moving to a great evening !  "Thank You For The Music "
ABBA fans, my tribute to the late 60's music and the current day revival through concerts, theater and movies !  Check out the photo montage-just like being there..........Enjoy !

" ENDINGS...BEGINNINGS "

The end of summer - the beginning of fall - where does the time go ?  Since last I blogged in addition to a seasonal change there are other happenings as well.  "Lite Fantastic" and Jimmy - the studio where Duncan and I dance and our instructor - celebrated 25 years !! He now begins the next 25....We have been a part of this for the last 12 years - a great time with new friends !  We also celebrated a special "beginning" with the Alm family in St. Petersburg, Florida. The Alms (Beth, Keith, Keith, Jr. and Michael) were our neighbors and friends when we first moved to Winston in the early '80's.  Keith2 married Beth2 (clever signatures for the newlyweds) and I have pictures!  http://gsmackeen.smugmug.com/Events/2011/The-Alm-Wedding/ .  Other neighbors (the Eglestons) were also there and a good time was had by all.  Such fun and joy is a wonderful reminder of how to begin and how to live life !  Sometimes I think we just go from day to day without truly appreciating the day we are in - I often find myself looking back or ahead instead of just enjoying the moment I am in.  A new resolution - make this the best day of my life !  Fall is a beginning - I resolve to start TODAY !

RELATIONSHIP RAMBLIN'S

NOTE:  Even if you decide you are not up to reading my "ramblin's" check out the photo gallery at www.gsmackeen.smugmug.com select Friends/2011/Summertime and ENJOY !

Now to get down to the serious stuff-relationships.  Have you ever dissected your friend timeline over the years?  What begins with childhood friends & family relationships quickly evolves to adult friendships that seem defined by your lifestyle.  In high school and college there are your peers who you hope to remain in contact with but often life and circumstances get in the way...distance is often the culprit-in the early '70's we did not have the internet!!  Your first job introduces you to co-workers who become your friends-common ground is important.  First marrieds congregate to first marrieds, then as parents you congregate with other parents-too often your children define that realm through sports teams, school activities-remember when you were identified as someone's mom?  You then  become an "empty nester" and again you are defined by those around you who again find themselves a twosome and then we become WHAT?  Later in life you seem to relate to your friends even though you may not have as much in common-the subject of parents, children, grandchildren, work, play remain constant.  I love to hear the stories of other friends and their grandchildren-it does not bore me-I find it entertaining.  Someday I  hope to be able to do the same.  Parallel lifestyles do not seem as important as I get older.  I remember the "first friends" and the newer friends-both share history, stories, good times, sorrows, losses - FRIENDS ARE THE FAMILY YOU CHOOSE.  I found this saying appropriate - strangely written on a bathroom wall-
"Be happy with what you have and you will have plenty to be happy about." 
This is my newest "happy" thought.  My best to you and yours! 
HAPPY SUMMER !

DOWNTOWN !!

Where to begin ?  Home again and on the road - never a moment wasted.  Time to enjoy the view, experience the music spend time with family and friends.  In no particular order, the past two months have been filled non-stop.  Visits from out of town friends and family ... Leslie spent weeks in D.C training and ended her trip with a brief visit in Winston-my Mom joined us as well as a quick visit from Blake-celebrating Leslie's birthday !  Lindsay, Heather & Chris (high school friends) joined us at the DASH baseball game where it proceeded to rain buckets-no game but still fun.  Golf at beach, the mountains, in Winston and then there is music from "Brother Josephus and the Love Revolution", to "Westend Mambo" to the "Holy Ghost Revival", then the Heavy Rebel Weekender with a great car show and mud wrestling.  A great weekend with Yates-afternoon visit to a local winery that was charming -Sanders Ridge.  Indeed there is something for everyone !  WE LOVE DOWNTOWN !
Check out photos - the car show is worth the effort !!  www.gsmackeen.smugmug.com , select Events/2011/Summer in Downtown

By the way...check out my friend Beth's new business venture www.ritchiehillbakery.com  Great cheese straws ! 

" UP, UP & AWAY !! "


Thirty hours, four airline meals and one Ambien later...
 we arrived in Amman, Jordan !!
Although not the original travel plan ( Mutual of Omaha opted to cancel a trip to Istanbul, Turkey due to security risks related to Bin Laden's death) - we were not to be deterred...traveled to Amman, Jordan direct from USA instead via Turkey to visit Leslie-still posted with USAID there.  Ten wonderful days spent exploring the country and spending time with Leslie and her friends. 

THURSDAY:  Strangely during our 2010 visit the US Embassy was having their annual wine tasting and again we arrived in time to  attend the 2011 affair- elegant foods, wines, music,  dancing-an evening just made for us!  Jet lag did not deter a good time, although the wine did seem seem to have an unusually "quick" kick;  thirty hours of travel door to door with minimal sleep could have added to this circumstance as well.

FRIDAY:  Revived by  morning we were up and ready to go...first to brunch at a very nice cafe then to a summer market that was celebrating it's opening day.  The market is only open on Fridays and was originally a project initiated by USAID with the purpose to encourage Jordanian merchants and artisans to sell their wares and foodstuffs.  The best options were several young women with interesting jewelry items and an artist that painted on glass and then made into trays, mugs, dishes, etc.  An innovative group of young men -who were searching for a restaurant name- were making flateers-extremely thin pastry layered with vegetable and meat options, folded and baked at extremely high heat for just a few minutes-delicious!  Could easily be the "Next Great American Restaurant".

Leslie was officially assigned her first USAID project in April after completing required training over the last year.  The initiative is to encourage gender acceptance and family planning in the country.  To this end John Hopkins is working in the country via a grant to achieve this purpose-this is one of Leslie's managerial assignments.  As it happened in Irbid, Jordan (about one hour north of Amman) the project was sponsoring a festival- "My Life Is Beautiful" -which we attended.  The Embassy driver picked us up late afternoon and we arrived in time for the entertainment.  Over 2, 000 people attended - a great success.  Highlights of the event included a popular comedy team - Ra'el & Khadra, Ma'an - traditional folk dancers, break dancers from Amman and the star of the evening Hussain Al Salman-nationally known pop singer who was originally from this region.   An aside, the Muslim clerics had just approved a declaration accepting the tenants of Leslie's project which is a huge step in the right direction for public health in Jordan.

SATURDAY :  Just one of the best days !  We along with a group of Leslie's friends travelled north (again) to the St. George vineyards-the passion of "The Winemaker" Omar Zumot.  Omar funded his venture with business acumen - wholesaling Lays and Hershey products to the whole of Jordan.  In spitting distance of Syria, Omar grows his grapes (34 varieties) on 1250 acres with two smaller vineyards  south of Amman.  His wines are totally organic and it was very interesting to hear of the process as we toured the guest house and grounds.  The afternoon was spent tasting wines along with a lovely barbecue-just grand.  The photo gallery (noted at end of blog) tells the story.  Our cast of characters (many who repeat with other festivities during our stay) include charming, witty, interesting friends that Leslie has met on this post.
Amy  (Canada) working in Amman with an educational foundation
Karin (Sweden) an engineer with SWECO managing water projects
Catherine (French Canadian) works in Canadian Embassy
Nina (USA) works as a technician with Syntax
Catherine (USA) working with ENDEAVOR in entrepreneurship
Ayman (Jordan) former Iraq contractor
Kai (Norway) works with the United Nations
Mo (USA) studying Arabic in Jordan
Guests of Catherine were Isabelle, Patrick & Baby Patrick from Abu Dhabi
You would think Duncan and I would know better but with age does not necessarily come wisdom !  Continued the party at Karin's late into the night with more wine, food, singing and dancing.  Did I mention the hookah?  Smoking a water pipe filled with fruit flavored tobaccos is quite a social event in Jordan-you can even order delivery as well as many bars devoted to this social event.  Quite pleasant flavors ie watermelon/mint, lemon/mint, double apple and the list goes on.  Pleasantly surprised to find country songs were a favorite of the group !  You don't have to be from the country to enjoy country !

SUNDAY:  First day of the work week so Duncan and I were on our own for the day.  Our driver, Husan , ferried us to museums, shopping malls, the grocery store and then a special late afternoon visit with Omar at his wine shop.  What a treat to hear first hand his history, the vision for his wine making and the excitement of actually being able to succeed with vineyards in such a dry, hot climate.  The key is the disparity in day and evening temperatures allowing the grapes to develop their sugars;  from his original tests of 34 varieties he has yet to find a grape that does not perform.  Amazing!

MONDAY:  Off early for the drive to Petra, south of Amman. In the 1950's  this site was unearthed-one of the earliest known farming communities in the Middle East.  Only 5% has been excavated but is a spectacular city honed from rose rock.  Although we had visited with Leslie in 2010, our mission this trip was to go further up into the mountains to see the Monastery- a Nabataean tomb built to King Obodas around 96 B.C.  and views that overlooked the entire region.  Since there were 800 steep steps to achieve our goal, we opted to take a carriage ride into the base -imagine riding over cobblestones in a horse drawn carriage- bumpy does not describe the thirty minute ride.  Once there we then chose a donkey to scale us up the 800 steps-perilous is the adjective since many areas were quite narrow.  Once on top, I suggested we actually walk down-no more donkey for me.  The incredible facades on the mountains and the views were worth it all. We spent our evening in Biet Zaman, a Bedouin style hotel in Petra and rested well.
TUESDAY:  Off again, this time to Wadi Rum-a series of valleys setin a desert landscape of sand and rock,punctuated bybtowering jebels.  We channeled our inner "Lawrence of Arabia"  (T. E. Lawrence  from the   20th century)- lived here and  the movie was filmed in the area as well.  The Bedouin guide was quite entertaining.  Duncan and I sat on benches in the back of his truck while he skirted around the rocks and sand dunes.  With limited English he was able to echo to fellow Bedouins our names;  he also prepared a campfire and served Bedouin tea (served hot, very sweet with sage)- delicious.  We relaxed in the shade of a rock before heading back to Amman.  Arriving past dinner time, we opted to go out to a wonderful Middle Eastern restaurant before once again collapsing into bed.

WEDNESDAY:  A group of nine are joining us for dinner tonight at Leslie's apartment.  Spent some of the day in the kitchen preparing "Southern"- fried chicken, macaroni & cheese, marinated green beans & tomatoes,  hush puppies and brownies.  I guess a sign of success is that there was no food left at the end of the evening!  Hush puppies were quite the novelty-cooking lessons on the "art" ensure that the hush puppy will travel well all over the world. Great time again, with the addition of Andrew ( USA) to the group.
THURSDAY:  We were to leave for Jerusalem today but due to security issues, Leslie did not get approved for travel to Israel.  Making the best of it all, we spent the day in Umm Qais (Gadara where the scriptures say that Jesus cast out demons into the herd of pigs) north of Amman close to Irbid where we had attended the festival.  Leslie decided to work and save her vacation day.  So very serene and beautiful.  To our left from the hill we could see Israel, to the front was the Sea of Galilee, the Golan Heights and then to the right we could see Syria.  We had lunch at a charming rest house at the top surrounded by sun, flowers and cool breezes. 

FRIDAY:  An easy day with Leslie.  She treated me to a mani-pedi, lunch at the market and shopping .  We met Nina and Kai for dinner and had a wonderful evening with them.

SATURDAY:  Brunch, shopping and a visit from Catherine (USA) before we headed out to airport-  winding down a wonderful visit.
SUNDAY:  Yes, another thirty hour trip-some delays out of New York to Raleigh-but we are home!!

Have 10 minutes? 
The photo gallery is extensive but is a treasure from our travels. 
Many photos captioned...enjoy ! 
Select Travel/2011/The Jordan Journey 
I love sharing this with you !!

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Thanks, girlfriends for the official "first party"...
Yes, the men were here as well, just not in the photo spirit !

TIARAS & TEE TIMES !!

WOW !  I was fortunate to share the "Royal Wedding" with my good friend Bonnie-we were at the beach condo for the weekend while our "men" played in the Surf Club's Member Guest.  We were up at five to savor every moment with tiaras and mimosas.  The dress-the pomp-the circumstance-the kiss-I loved every moment......almost makes one want to be British ! They do know how to celebrate a wedding! 




On to the men-they won their flight and in the one hole shootout (#18 for those who know the course) Duncan was the only player out of ten to hit the green!  Very exciting-ended in a three way tie and on second playoff of same hole had to beat out a shot that was six inches from the hole on the approach-not meant to be-but did come in second in the field of sixty teams.  Congratulations to Will & Catherine and also Duncan &  Lindsay - our golf royalty!




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