THE JORDAN JOURNEY

It is difficult to put into words the week we spent with Leslie at her new home in Amman, Jordan. Exciting, interesting, informative, a walk through history, family time....just grand ! Leslie arrived for her first post with USAID in January of this year after a year of language and training in Washington, D.C. Duncan and I were lucky to be able to visit so soon (we were on our way to Madrid, Spain...more on that later). But where to begin? Our time frame was arriving on a Thursday (April 29) and departing Wednesday (May 5); the seven hour time difference took some adjustment but we were off and running as soon as our feet hit the tarmac.THURSDAY evening (an hour after arrival in Amman) we went to the US Embassy for a "Wine & Cigar" evening; the wine tasting was set up around the pool area and later in the evening we danced to DJ music. So great to see Leslie and meet some of her co-workers; many of the attendees were actually associated with the State department as well as the Marine staff who live full time at the Embassy.








FRIDAY is the start of the weekend. The lovely cadence of prayers from the mosques begin at 4:30 in the morning and repeat five times during the day ending in the early evening. It is a wonderfully soothing sound and what devotion !! to stop five times each day to pray! Our day begins at "home" which is a lovely apartment in West Amman (mandatory within two miles of the Embassy) that is selected and furnished as part of Leslie's position; there is an armed guard stationed outside every residence that houses Embassy personnel for security. It is a lovely neighborhood with several private residences as well as apartment buildings. We had a full day ahead...we drive to Mount Nebo (site where Moses looked over to The Promised Land), a wonderful hike in Bethany along the Jordan River (where Jesus was baptized ) with a close look to the West Bank-both sides with armed guards patrolling the area and then on to the Dead Sea-yes, we did swim and yes you do automatically float ! You feel like a buoy-there is no stopping the "float" ! Dined in and watched videos-great to relax.

SATURDAY we spent exploring Amman; we were joined by Wayne, a friend Leslie has met since arriving in Amman who strangely enough is from Wallburg (right outside of Winston-Salem, attended UNC-CH and is a Marine officer at the Embassy-the world is getting smaller and smaller!) We began at The Citadel, the highest hill in Amman and the site of ancient Rabbath-Ammon-a fortress for thousands of years destroyed by an earthquake in AD 749. Lunch was at a popular Lebanese cafe (we ate in the alley) and then had a leisurely coffee and she-sha (fruit flavored tobacco smoked with a water pipe-a popular social event in many cafes. Shopping afterwards in the town center we realized how well Leslie spoke Arabic-what a treat to have our own interpreter. Strangely enough with her stature and Arabic speech, she was recognized from previous visits in many places we dined and shopped. There is a stark contrast once you pass though the city center to East Amman-the poorer section of the city of over 2.5 million people.


SUNDAY was the beginning of Leslie's work week. She had arranged for a driver, Hasan, to take us to Jerash, about 45 minutes from Amman. It is one of the best examples in the Middle East of a Roman provincial city. The amphitheater presented a mini version of "Ben Hur" with chariot races and gladiators. Back in Amman Hasan treated us to the Royal Automobile Museum which featured a collection of 90 cars and 35 motorcycles from the reign of King Hussein. Dinner out with Leslie's boss, Laura, who had been with the agency for over 30 years was delightful-Lebanese again-I really do like olives, hummus and other strange delights.



MONDAY we began at 6:00 AM for the three hour drive to Petra. Although Leslie had already ventured here several times, it is so spectacular that one could visit many times and always be humbled by the experience. Hewn from towering rock walls of multi-colored sandstone, the imposing facades of great temples and tombs are a living monument to the desert tribes of Nabataeans-Arabs who dominated the region in pre-Roman times. As a new addition to the NEW seven wonders of the world, it is not to be missed. A special dinner back in Amman with Huda, Leslie's friend from graduate school at Columbia, who is native to the area-what a treat ! Jordanian hospitality is their signature-even when shopping you are offered tea and coffee as a gesture of welcome and always depart with a blessing for you and your family. In all of our travels, it stands alone as the most welcoming country we have ever visited.


TUESDAY we spent the morning and early afternoon with Hasan driving through the city and visiting the only mosque that is open to non-Muslims, in honor of King Abdullah, the grandfather of King Hussein. Visitors were allowed excluding prayer times. The structure and grounds were quite spectacular; although I had dressed conservatively, the mosque requested that I wear a full length robe with hood while walking around the property. This was the only occasion during our visit that the dress code was strict. We were able to visit Leslie at the Embassy in the afternoon and meet the persons she works with including the director of the mission in Jordan. There are a dozen Americans on staff with USAID and 70 Jordanian staff members. The Embassy itself is heavily guarded with armed soldiers, armored cars and machine guns. Our clearance into the area was quite extensive and sadly there were no photos allowed. Leslie is currently training in several areas with USAID but after a year will be assigned a project that she will supervise. We dined in preparing for a 5:00 AM departure on Wednesday for Madrid. We will be back......so much more to see and do !

TAKE ME OUT TO THE BALLGAME.....ETC.!


Spring is finally here and with age seems to come a change in my body's tolerance for the "unknown" pollens, weeds, etc. Never before has it been an issue but thanks to my advancing age, it is just another gift of Father Time. Thanks, huh? It has not kept me from enjoying the spring-after such a cold and miserable winter. In addition to golf, dancing, gardening, etc., Duncan and I are enjoying the new baseball park-home of the Winston-Salem DASH. Has been lots of fun to take friends-yes, the picture is myself and friend Prudy with Bolt-the mascot. We look forward to more baseball through the summer; the bar, buffet and spirited staff has raised my level of tolerance for the game. GO DASH !

HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY !



"God couldn't be everywhere, so he created mothers."

Yiddish Proverb

APRIL IN NEW YORK !







Duncan and I shared a great weekend in New York with friends Gail and Jim Bland in early April. Beginning in Raleigh, NC on Friday evening, we revisited a favorite "The Angus Barn" for a great start to our weekend. Saturday morning we flew out to the city-it was glorious! I love the city and we arrived with an agenda that kept us on the move for two days. We were entertained with musicals "Billy Elliott" and "Wicked" (this one may be my favorite of all time!), dinners at "Scalini Fedeli" and "Mas Farmhouse", brunch at "Blue Fin" and a little culture with a tour of The Cloisters which houses the Metropolitan Museum of Art's collection of art and architecture from medieval Europe-views of the Hudson River from its gardens made us feel as if we were not even in New York! We taxied, we walked, we ate, we watched and overall had a tremendous time. Just had to share the fun!

"....THE ONE IS SILVER, THE OTHER GOLD"
















"Make new friends, but keep the old.....the one is silver, the other gold! Should I call us the golden girls? It was a great evening when ten college friends who graduated from the University of North Carolina at Greensboro in 1971 met March 27th at Sara Hill's home in Greensboro. Many of us had "misplaced" each other for many almost 40 years-I had not seen Virginia (Ginny) and Terri since graduation and the others since a reunion in 1981. Over the years paths crossed on soccer fields with Ivey and Lee, Betty was great staying connected through emails and my roommate Sarah regaled us with a wonderful online journal in 2006 when she and husband Roy took a cross country motorcycle trip. Susan had been busy with a career and family-now enjoying retirement- and Beverly, who married while in college, is still supervising many at work and at home-she took the prize with 13 grandkids! Christmas card photos and emails put time in perspective for many of us over the years but nothing can compare to actually spending time together. Although everyone's story was important I enjoyed confirming Lee's singing talent (she and daughter Lauren had won second place in a national contest hosted by Garrison Keiller), Betty's math acumen (she has a PHD in math and a "force" in the Mathematical Association of America) and then there is Ginny (Virginia Wright-Frierson) an amazing artist and author (who created a mural in the remodeled Columbine High School- www.hopecolumbine.org/pictures.html and www.acolumbinesite.com/remodel.html) Brief and lengthy histories helped recall so many memories not the least of which were stories shared about our good friend Bettye Rose who had passed away in late 2009. As we listened to the soundtrack of "Hair" and drank wine from glasses instead of plastic cups, I was back on campus in Cone dormitory-it seemed our last conversation was just yesterday- you are golden, girls!

GIRLS JUST WANT TO HAVE FUN!
















The winter months seem longer this year...could it be because there has been no sunshine for days on end? HIGHLIGHTS: Dancing (another fun trip to The Odyssey for a talent show)... Dancing demos for many weeks at Creekside Terrace-a retirement community-where Duncan and I probably received more blessings than the residents we performed for and danced with...A brief and chilly beach trip-did you realize that on any given day you can find "Top Gun" on TV? And then there was the eighth annual MAC-MAR INVITATIONAL in late March hosted by myself and good friend Betty. Photos do not do justice for the great time sixteen women can have when they get together to golf (three rounds), gossip (endless), drink (bottomless) and dine (divine)! Four days pass too quickly-I am already looking forward to 2011!

SKIING AT MY AGE ?







Birthday week was spent with friends in Vail, Colorado skiing-last time I was on the slopes was 1999 ! Yes, ten years makes a difference in attitude but thankfully not aptitude. Duncan and I were able to make our way down the mountain for five days without a fall or any broken bones so we considered the trip a huge success. Never more than a basic intermediate level skier, the years proved to make me more cautious but was still exciting to once again prove that sixty plus can survive a "run down the mountains". Down time with Lynne, David, Jane, Paul, Stevie and Kevin to include the hot tub, movies, puzzles or just reading by the fire was a great way to celebrate. And not to worry, why just yesterday (the 16th) I had another wonderful birthday lunch-the month is not over yet !

TELEVISION 24/7

  • CRIMINAL MINDS
  • DANCING WITH THE STARS
  • GLEE
  • GREY'S ANATOMY
  • MIKE & MOLLY
  • MODERN FAMILY
  • NASHVILLE
  • NCIS
  • PERSON OF INTEREST
  • PRIVATE PRACTICE
  • REVENGE
  • THE GOOD WIFE
  • TWO AND A HALF MEN

MOVIE REEL

  • ARBITRAGE
  • ARGO
  • AVATAR (3D)
  • BEACHES
  • BOYS ON THE SIDE
  • FLIGHT
  • GOOD WILL HUNTING
  • MAMA MIA
  • QUARTET
  • SLUMDOG MILLIONAIRE
  • TERMS OF ENDEARMENT
  • THE BLIND SIDE
  • THE BOOK OF ELI
  • THE CURIOUS CASE OF BENJAMIN BUTTON
  • THE HUNGER GAMES
  • THE NOTEBOOK
  • THE SECRECT LIFE OF BEES
  • THE SESSIONS
  • UP
  • WATER FOR ELEPHANTS