" ABBA , the Concert "

"..... you can dance, you can jive, having the time of your life...."
Duncan and I were fortunate to experience  " ABBA, the Concert "  with friends Jane and Paul Hendrick on September 24 (I note the date because I am inserting this entry before other August events)...anyway what made it so special was that we met a member of the troop before the concert for dinner.  Conrad, brother of Caroline-the Hendricks exchange student in the mid-90's- is a professional guitarist from Sweden and is a part of the tribute band that was finishing it's USA tour with a stop in Greensboro.  Please note that two of the original ABBA band members were part of the tour:  Mike Watson (bass guitar) and Janne Kling (saxophone and flute).   JUST FABULOUS !  " Name of the Game " is FUN !!!
"Gimme, Gimme, Gimme" a chance to chaffeur everyone in our new Hyundai Sante Fe....once we figured out the navigation system.  Arriving at the venue, there was some mixup with "will call" tickets (compliments of the band)-more on that later-but we did meet Conrad after his sound check-and had a lovely dinner at a local restaurant " 1618 West Seafood Grill " (we recommend)..."Money, Money, Money" but what else do you expect for atmosphere and great food?...worth every penny !    An "S.O.S" from the band-the opening time was moved up 30 minutes due to impending weather-so the key lime everyone had their heart set on had to wait !  "Take a Chance On Me " to get you there, Conrad !!
"Mamma Mia"  !!!!!     Thirty minutes to showtime-thank heavens for the navigation!  Conrad jumped out of the car but we still had not picked up the tickets.  "Super Trouper" Paul sprinted across the concourse to "will call" and yes, the tickets were there-we were front and center!  Jane and I are "Dancing Queen"s- up and moving to a great evening !  "Thank You For The Music "
ABBA fans, my tribute to the late 60's music and the current day revival through concerts, theater and movies !  Check out the photo montage-just like being there..........Enjoy !

" ENDINGS...BEGINNINGS "

The end of summer - the beginning of fall - where does the time go ?  Since last I blogged in addition to a seasonal change there are other happenings as well.  "Lite Fantastic" and Jimmy - the studio where Duncan and I dance and our instructor - celebrated 25 years !! He now begins the next 25....We have been a part of this for the last 12 years - a great time with new friends !  We also celebrated a special "beginning" with the Alm family in St. Petersburg, Florida. The Alms (Beth, Keith, Keith, Jr. and Michael) were our neighbors and friends when we first moved to Winston in the early '80's.  Keith2 married Beth2 (clever signatures for the newlyweds) and I have pictures!  http://gsmackeen.smugmug.com/Events/2011/The-Alm-Wedding/ .  Other neighbors (the Eglestons) were also there and a good time was had by all.  Such fun and joy is a wonderful reminder of how to begin and how to live life !  Sometimes I think we just go from day to day without truly appreciating the day we are in - I often find myself looking back or ahead instead of just enjoying the moment I am in.  A new resolution - make this the best day of my life !  Fall is a beginning - I resolve to start TODAY !

RELATIONSHIP RAMBLIN'S

NOTE:  Even if you decide you are not up to reading my "ramblin's" check out the photo gallery at www.gsmackeen.smugmug.com select Friends/2011/Summertime and ENJOY !

Now to get down to the serious stuff-relationships.  Have you ever dissected your friend timeline over the years?  What begins with childhood friends & family relationships quickly evolves to adult friendships that seem defined by your lifestyle.  In high school and college there are your peers who you hope to remain in contact with but often life and circumstances get in the way...distance is often the culprit-in the early '70's we did not have the internet!!  Your first job introduces you to co-workers who become your friends-common ground is important.  First marrieds congregate to first marrieds, then as parents you congregate with other parents-too often your children define that realm through sports teams, school activities-remember when you were identified as someone's mom?  You then  become an "empty nester" and again you are defined by those around you who again find themselves a twosome and then we become WHAT?  Later in life you seem to relate to your friends even though you may not have as much in common-the subject of parents, children, grandchildren, work, play remain constant.  I love to hear the stories of other friends and their grandchildren-it does not bore me-I find it entertaining.  Someday I  hope to be able to do the same.  Parallel lifestyles do not seem as important as I get older.  I remember the "first friends" and the newer friends-both share history, stories, good times, sorrows, losses - FRIENDS ARE THE FAMILY YOU CHOOSE.  I found this saying appropriate - strangely written on a bathroom wall-
"Be happy with what you have and you will have plenty to be happy about." 
This is my newest "happy" thought.  My best to you and yours! 
HAPPY SUMMER !

DOWNTOWN !!

Where to begin ?  Home again and on the road - never a moment wasted.  Time to enjoy the view, experience the music spend time with family and friends.  In no particular order, the past two months have been filled non-stop.  Visits from out of town friends and family ... Leslie spent weeks in D.C training and ended her trip with a brief visit in Winston-my Mom joined us as well as a quick visit from Blake-celebrating Leslie's birthday !  Lindsay, Heather & Chris (high school friends) joined us at the DASH baseball game where it proceeded to rain buckets-no game but still fun.  Golf at beach, the mountains, in Winston and then there is music from "Brother Josephus and the Love Revolution", to "Westend Mambo" to the "Holy Ghost Revival", then the Heavy Rebel Weekender with a great car show and mud wrestling.  A great weekend with Yates-afternoon visit to a local winery that was charming -Sanders Ridge.  Indeed there is something for everyone !  WE LOVE DOWNTOWN !
Check out photos - the car show is worth the effort !!  www.gsmackeen.smugmug.com , select Events/2011/Summer in Downtown

By the way...check out my friend Beth's new business venture www.ritchiehillbakery.com  Great cheese straws ! 

" UP, UP & AWAY !! "


Thirty hours, four airline meals and one Ambien later...
 we arrived in Amman, Jordan !!
Although not the original travel plan ( Mutual of Omaha opted to cancel a trip to Istanbul, Turkey due to security risks related to Bin Laden's death) - we were not to be deterred...traveled to Amman, Jordan direct from USA instead via Turkey to visit Leslie-still posted with USAID there.  Ten wonderful days spent exploring the country and spending time with Leslie and her friends. 

THURSDAY:  Strangely during our 2010 visit the US Embassy was having their annual wine tasting and again we arrived in time to  attend the 2011 affair- elegant foods, wines, music,  dancing-an evening just made for us!  Jet lag did not deter a good time, although the wine did seem seem to have an unusually "quick" kick;  thirty hours of travel door to door with minimal sleep could have added to this circumstance as well.

FRIDAY:  Revived by  morning we were up and ready to go...first to brunch at a very nice cafe then to a summer market that was celebrating it's opening day.  The market is only open on Fridays and was originally a project initiated by USAID with the purpose to encourage Jordanian merchants and artisans to sell their wares and foodstuffs.  The best options were several young women with interesting jewelry items and an artist that painted on glass and then made into trays, mugs, dishes, etc.  An innovative group of young men -who were searching for a restaurant name- were making flateers-extremely thin pastry layered with vegetable and meat options, folded and baked at extremely high heat for just a few minutes-delicious!  Could easily be the "Next Great American Restaurant".

Leslie was officially assigned her first USAID project in April after completing required training over the last year.  The initiative is to encourage gender acceptance and family planning in the country.  To this end John Hopkins is working in the country via a grant to achieve this purpose-this is one of Leslie's managerial assignments.  As it happened in Irbid, Jordan (about one hour north of Amman) the project was sponsoring a festival- "My Life Is Beautiful" -which we attended.  The Embassy driver picked us up late afternoon and we arrived in time for the entertainment.  Over 2, 000 people attended - a great success.  Highlights of the event included a popular comedy team - Ra'el & Khadra, Ma'an - traditional folk dancers, break dancers from Amman and the star of the evening Hussain Al Salman-nationally known pop singer who was originally from this region.   An aside, the Muslim clerics had just approved a declaration accepting the tenants of Leslie's project which is a huge step in the right direction for public health in Jordan.

SATURDAY :  Just one of the best days !  We along with a group of Leslie's friends travelled north (again) to the St. George vineyards-the passion of "The Winemaker" Omar Zumot.  Omar funded his venture with business acumen - wholesaling Lays and Hershey products to the whole of Jordan.  In spitting distance of Syria, Omar grows his grapes (34 varieties) on 1250 acres with two smaller vineyards  south of Amman.  His wines are totally organic and it was very interesting to hear of the process as we toured the guest house and grounds.  The afternoon was spent tasting wines along with a lovely barbecue-just grand.  The photo gallery (noted at end of blog) tells the story.  Our cast of characters (many who repeat with other festivities during our stay) include charming, witty, interesting friends that Leslie has met on this post.
Amy  (Canada) working in Amman with an educational foundation
Karin (Sweden) an engineer with SWECO managing water projects
Catherine (French Canadian) works in Canadian Embassy
Nina (USA) works as a technician with Syntax
Catherine (USA) working with ENDEAVOR in entrepreneurship
Ayman (Jordan) former Iraq contractor
Kai (Norway) works with the United Nations
Mo (USA) studying Arabic in Jordan
Guests of Catherine were Isabelle, Patrick & Baby Patrick from Abu Dhabi
You would think Duncan and I would know better but with age does not necessarily come wisdom !  Continued the party at Karin's late into the night with more wine, food, singing and dancing.  Did I mention the hookah?  Smoking a water pipe filled with fruit flavored tobaccos is quite a social event in Jordan-you can even order delivery as well as many bars devoted to this social event.  Quite pleasant flavors ie watermelon/mint, lemon/mint, double apple and the list goes on.  Pleasantly surprised to find country songs were a favorite of the group !  You don't have to be from the country to enjoy country !

SUNDAY:  First day of the work week so Duncan and I were on our own for the day.  Our driver, Husan , ferried us to museums, shopping malls, the grocery store and then a special late afternoon visit with Omar at his wine shop.  What a treat to hear first hand his history, the vision for his wine making and the excitement of actually being able to succeed with vineyards in such a dry, hot climate.  The key is the disparity in day and evening temperatures allowing the grapes to develop their sugars;  from his original tests of 34 varieties he has yet to find a grape that does not perform.  Amazing!

MONDAY:  Off early for the drive to Petra, south of Amman. In the 1950's  this site was unearthed-one of the earliest known farming communities in the Middle East.  Only 5% has been excavated but is a spectacular city honed from rose rock.  Although we had visited with Leslie in 2010, our mission this trip was to go further up into the mountains to see the Monastery- a Nabataean tomb built to King Obodas around 96 B.C.  and views that overlooked the entire region.  Since there were 800 steep steps to achieve our goal, we opted to take a carriage ride into the base -imagine riding over cobblestones in a horse drawn carriage- bumpy does not describe the thirty minute ride.  Once there we then chose a donkey to scale us up the 800 steps-perilous is the adjective since many areas were quite narrow.  Once on top, I suggested we actually walk down-no more donkey for me.  The incredible facades on the mountains and the views were worth it all. We spent our evening in Biet Zaman, a Bedouin style hotel in Petra and rested well.
TUESDAY:  Off again, this time to Wadi Rum-a series of valleys setin a desert landscape of sand and rock,punctuated bybtowering jebels.  We channeled our inner "Lawrence of Arabia"  (T. E. Lawrence  from the   20th century)- lived here and  the movie was filmed in the area as well.  The Bedouin guide was quite entertaining.  Duncan and I sat on benches in the back of his truck while he skirted around the rocks and sand dunes.  With limited English he was able to echo to fellow Bedouins our names;  he also prepared a campfire and served Bedouin tea (served hot, very sweet with sage)- delicious.  We relaxed in the shade of a rock before heading back to Amman.  Arriving past dinner time, we opted to go out to a wonderful Middle Eastern restaurant before once again collapsing into bed.

WEDNESDAY:  A group of nine are joining us for dinner tonight at Leslie's apartment.  Spent some of the day in the kitchen preparing "Southern"- fried chicken, macaroni & cheese, marinated green beans & tomatoes,  hush puppies and brownies.  I guess a sign of success is that there was no food left at the end of the evening!  Hush puppies were quite the novelty-cooking lessons on the "art" ensure that the hush puppy will travel well all over the world. Great time again, with the addition of Andrew ( USA) to the group.
THURSDAY:  We were to leave for Jerusalem today but due to security issues, Leslie did not get approved for travel to Israel.  Making the best of it all, we spent the day in Umm Qais (Gadara where the scriptures say that Jesus cast out demons into the herd of pigs) north of Amman close to Irbid where we had attended the festival.  Leslie decided to work and save her vacation day.  So very serene and beautiful.  To our left from the hill we could see Israel, to the front was the Sea of Galilee, the Golan Heights and then to the right we could see Syria.  We had lunch at a charming rest house at the top surrounded by sun, flowers and cool breezes. 

FRIDAY:  An easy day with Leslie.  She treated me to a mani-pedi, lunch at the market and shopping .  We met Nina and Kai for dinner and had a wonderful evening with them.

SATURDAY:  Brunch, shopping and a visit from Catherine (USA) before we headed out to airport-  winding down a wonderful visit.
SUNDAY:  Yes, another thirty hour trip-some delays out of New York to Raleigh-but we are home!!

Have 10 minutes? 
The photo gallery is extensive but is a treasure from our travels. 
Many photos captioned...enjoy ! 
Select Travel/2011/The Jordan Journey 
I love sharing this with you !!

UPTOWN - DOWNTOWN

However you phrase it - either up or down - we love it ! 
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Thanks, girlfriends for the official "first party"...
Yes, the men were here as well, just not in the photo spirit !

TIARAS & TEE TIMES !!

WOW !  I was fortunate to share the "Royal Wedding" with my good friend Bonnie-we were at the beach condo for the weekend while our "men" played in the Surf Club's Member Guest.  We were up at five to savor every moment with tiaras and mimosas.  The dress-the pomp-the circumstance-the kiss-I loved every moment......almost makes one want to be British ! They do know how to celebrate a wedding! 




On to the men-they won their flight and in the one hole shootout (#18 for those who know the course) Duncan was the only player out of ten to hit the green!  Very exciting-ended in a three way tie and on second playoff of same hole had to beat out a shot that was six inches from the hole on the approach-not meant to be-but did come in second in the field of sixty teams.  Congratulations to Will & Catherine and also Duncan &  Lindsay - our golf royalty!




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